That whole cooking thing. Well, we decided not to do that this year. I realize that some people love to cook and believe that
Thanksgiving is not the same without a ton of home cooked food that you
worked really long and hard to prepare. I am not one of those people.
My parents house is a disaster. When you are moving the week after Thanksgiving chances are your home is not equipped to handle cooking a Thanksgiving feast, leftovers or having guests so we knew that Thanksgiving would be at our house. If I never make a Thanksgiving dinner in my life that will be fine with me. I just don't have it in me to do such a thing. MJ did it a few years ago, but was not interested in doing it again this year.
So what do we do about food, because Thanksgiving is nothing without food, or so I'm told. Turns out, there is quite the market for this conundrum. We aren't the only slackers who don't want to cook Thanksgiving dinner and there are plenty of places that will do it for you at an affordable price. We decided on
Fresh & Easy because they offered the best variety for sides and we love their freshly made food. I've never eaten anything I didn't like from there and it really is Fresh and Easy. Decisions
about food are always critical for my mom but when it's Thanksgiving,
it's really serious business and this was only going to work if my parents were okay with it. There were a lot of text messages back and forth and at one point I thought we were going to have to cook but it worked out.
I wasn't sure what to expect, but when I saw that cute little box I knew everything was going to be okay. Even though we didn't cook anything it smelled like we did and that's part of why you love it so much right? The turkey needed almost three hours to cook and all the sides had to be warmed so we still got to use the oven. The house smelled exactly like someone was in the kitchen all day, and someone actually was, it just wasn't us.
After much discussion we agreed on brussel sprouts with bacon, mashed potatoes and cranberry sauce for sides. It even came with a free pumpkin pie. MJ is currently working his way through it by himself since I don't eat pie. He isn't even a fan of pumpkin pie and says it's pretty good. My mom was nervous about the stuffing and yams so she made stuffing and picked up yams from Boston Market and my dad refuses to eat anything but the cheapo cranberry sauce in a can. Throw in some dinner rolls and we had a complete Thanksgiving spread. For dessert MJ made marble cake and peanut butter & chocolate chip cookies from scratch. We also had ice cream but we all atE so much that it never came out of the fridge.
Thanksgiving dinner came out of a box but no one was disappointed. Not even my mom. It was one of the best Thanksgiving meals I've ever had. The turkey was all breast so we didn't have to deal with all those nasty bones, everything was full of flavor and we had just enough left overs. The best part about all of this is that no one had to slave away in the kitchen for hours the night before or the day of. MJ picked up our food the day before Thanksgiving, made the desserts in the morning and we were chowing down by 2:00pm. There were dishes, but not the mountain it would have been had we cooked. Some might think a store bought Thanksgiving is sad, but I call it efficient. Okay, and maybe a little lazy.
The best part about the day was spending time with MJ and my parents. We sat around, drank wine, ate, talked and watched football the entire day. I knew it was going to be the last time I saw them for a while but it didn't hit me until they were on their way out the door. I kept it cool while they were putting on their shoes and it wasn't until we were outside when I was giving my mom one last hug that I lost it. We clung to each other and sobbed. I'm a grown woman and I have always been very independent. I don't see my parents every weekend but the idea that I
can't see them every weekend or even every month if I want to makes me really sad. She's still my mommy and not having her and dad nearby is going to take some getting used to. After they left MJ put his arms around me so I could cry some more. I'm crying even as I write this. Dramatic much? Maybe so, but I'm emotional and those are my parents. I'm going to miss them.
We got our tree two days after Thanksgiving which is a big deal because we get it later and later every year. Last year I don't think we got it until the week before Christmas so I was determined that we not procrastinate. We really have no excuse because the tree farm we use every year is right across the street. We drive by it on our way home from work every day. We walk to the ATM if we need cash, walk across the street to the lot and then MJ carries it home. He remembered to bring his gardening gloves this time. We got a really good tree. The shape is perfect and with the decorations it looks about the same as it did last year and I love it. The four day break lasted a really long time which was great. I think that's what happens when you don't pack a lot into it. The only thing we did was go to the movies to see Mockingjay.
I'm a mac and cheese girl. I don't eat stuffing, I don't do yams, cranberry sauce or pies and if I only have one thing on Thanksgiving I'd be happy as long as it was mac and cheese. I knew I wasn't
getting it this year and that was okay because I know that someday I will eat
it again. I don't plan on this being my last meal, ever. I
know that nobody is promised tomorrow but I'm pretty sure that even if it was, the last thing I'm going to regret is that I didn't eat macaroni and cheese on November 25th.
If I was on death row and didn't get it for my last meal, that's another
story.
The thing I will think about more than anything else is who I spent it with because it's just food, and people are infinitely more precious than macaroni. I think everyone can agree on that.
Disclaimer: This post is not sponsored by Fresh and Easy but I wish it was.
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